Le little niece and me in her kindergarden graduation <3
Happiness is waking up in the middle of the night, and feeling the heat of the person next to you.You turn around and see them in their most peaceful, innocent, and vulnerable state.They breathe as though the weight of the world lays on anyone’s shoulder but their own.You smile,kiss their face in the most gentle manner so as not to wake them.You turn back around and an involuntary grin forms on your own face.You feel an arm wrap around your waist,and you know it doesn’t get any better than this.
:’) Oh god. <3
The three things a guy should want to change about his girl is her last name, adress and her viewpoint on men.
next time I have a boyfriend I’ll do this for his birthday or anniversary or valentines. <3
Everyone says that love hurts, but that’s not true. Loneliness, hurts. Rejection, hurts, Losing someone, hurts. Everyone confuse these things with love, but in reality, LOVE is the only thing in the world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again.
About that (almost) extinct kind called gentlemen…
Yesterday I read this quote: “A person who is nice to you but is not nice with the waiter, is not a nice person”. Then, besides thinking it was so darn true I thought: well this can totally be applied to other things, like for example, how to know if a guy is really a gentleman or not!
I used to date a guy about a year ago, maybe a little more, who was the kind of guy that opens you the door and gives you his jacket when is cold. Ok. At the beginning it was all nice, and his gentlemen manners were all amazing… until one day… we had to take a bus together. This old (really old) lady came and there wasn’t any free seat. She was standing right next to us. I saw him watching her. And do nothing. It wasn’t until I got up and gave her MY seat when he had some kind of reaction. Yep. how ironic! isn’t it?…. and since then, I started to note that he was such a jerk with everybody else. With his mom… with his sister… etc.
What do I want to tell you with this?? well…
To really know if a guy is a gentleman or not you have to not only pay attention on how he treats you but how he treats other women near him and even other people in general.
Why?? Because it’s toooo easy to fake be a gentleman with the girl he likes and want to be with in a near future. But how about his mom? how does he talk about her? how he treats his sister? How’s he with old ladies or in general with people?? THAT’S WHERE REAL GENTLEMEN ARE SEPARATED FROM JERKS TRYING TO IMPRESS YOU. Just think about this thing my mom use to say and that is super true “the way he treat his mother now, is the way he’s going to treat you when you get married”. TRUE.
So… how to know if he’s a gentleman??
1. he talks and treats his mom and sisters (or any other female figure in his life) right.
2. He’s nice with other people. Even if he won’t obtain any benefit from that.
3. He treats you like a lady… even if you have more than 1 year of relationship.
4. When you discuss, he doesn’t raise his voice and he doesn’t insult you. A real gentleman know that and argue is about talking and solving what is wrong… not about insulting the other person with stuff that has nothing to do with the main discution.
5. And probably the most important. If you have to ask a guy to be a gentleman…. then he’s not and he won’t ever be. Maybe he’ll try… but just because he likes you a lot. Sooner or later he’ll get tired and be just the way he was. Being a gentleman is not something you ask for… it doesn’t make sense.
And knowing this, there’s only one thing else to know… if you’re demanding life for a gentleman… be yourself a lady. Being a lady is essential to get a getleman. Being a lady has a lot to do with all what I wrote here about being a gentleman, plus, having self respect and loving and caring about yourself. If you don’t respect yourself or love yourself, you’ll just push away gentlemen and attract insecure dumbasses. A good gentleman loves to find a girl who knows how valuable she is.
So remember!! BE A LADY AND SEARCH FOR GENTLEMEN! <3
…And I’m forever excusing your intentions and I give in to my pretendings wich forgive you each time, without me knowing, they melt my heart to stone…
--Adele “Melt my heart to stone” (via the Ann Marie’s style)
and that’s the kind of look we should search?… I haven’t find it yet.
Have u ever seen a cutest little bastard?